The Real Life Tale

Its never perfect..It will never be perfect!!

And this is a good thing..Now we can all stop looking for that unexisting fairy tale..and start accepting the tale that we get..the Real Life Tale.

No prince charming is going to come on a white horse..It will be a regular man..in a car..who works a 9 to 5..thats how it works..

Its not going to be a perfect palace..If you are very lucky..it will be a 3 bedroom flat in a good area..

Thats how life is..Its never a Martini..its always a lemonade...and you have to make it Yourself!!

MI

Relationships are difficult as it is..You just add in a little Time, Distance and Family..

and wallah..

you got yourself a Mission Impossible!!

The Feminist's Truth

Every culture in the world has one thing in common..and i.e "girls getting all boo-boo ovee marriage"..its all a cultural thing..its just programmed in our brains that being married is a milestone that one has to achieve..successful or not..thats a concern that comes later...but you have to fulfill a bare minimum..its common in every single girl..

But then in every culture. There will be 1 in a 100 girls..who will be against this programming..and somehow her strings get tangled and she seems crazy to the rest of the lot..But mind you..SHE IS STILL THE SAME GOOEY ROMANTIC, PRINCE CHARMING ON THE WHITE HORSE kinda girl..

Every now and then, her strings will untangle and she will get on the "normal train".

#ToAllTheUnmarriedLadiesOutThere

PS- Prince Charming is right around the corner <3 <3

My Village

So there I was..in the most beautiful village possible..
where people knew me..
where there was no hypocrisy..
people met with open hearts..
they had little money..and no luxuries..
but there hearts were made if gold..
and they opened there hearts and wallet to us..

where things werent shiny and new..
but they were clean and dingy..
where we all had that srso ka saag and ganne..in other peoples homes..

where life is slow..too slow..but the heart beats are fast..

where life is dull..but happy!!

thats my village..
my Qayamganj!!

#NasheesDiaries

Lies Please! Anyone?

Everybody loves a good Lie. Yeah you read it right.

LIES..thats what people love.

You can be honest..truthful..but nobody likes that. Because they cant handle the truth..men for instance!

They want co-dependent, weak, always smiling and perky women. They cant handle strong independent women..hence the single streak..

Strong women, say what they feel...the TRUTH..which obviously, is such a ball buster..So what should we do?

Be Perky??or be Truthful?
Be Honest? or just keep the truth to ourself?

What???

You made me a Non-Quitter!!

" You know what..I can't even believe I am saying this..But I am in f*****g Love with you. "

I have denied it till now, to myself, that this is all a mirage..and you are just an idea of love. But that's not true at all. You are my Love. From the moment, you came into my life, I haven't been able to sleep peacefully. It been such a up-down hill kind of journey. I have been so tired at times, that I just wanted to STOP.

Me...the person, with so much of life, wanted to stop. That's how tired I got. And then I wondered, why didn't I just quit..Its not like, it was impossible. I just didn't. And I blame YOU for that.

You did this to me. You made me a non-quitter. And i f*****g Love it. I love what you have made me into. I love knowing, that even though, we are practically not talking at all..I am still what you made me into.

So yeah..I Love You..and I am not gonna quit!!!

XoXo

Nashee

One Moment

Our perception changes..

Always remember that!!

One moment, you might hate a place or a person, and as soon as you are away from them, or say you loose them, you start missing them..

One moment, you may Love someone, and another, you might hate them, or something they did.

One moment, you may hate your job, you boss, another moment, you might fall in love with them.

Just One Moment, that's all it takes!!

XoXo

Nashee

Welcome-2018

Well, here is a good news!

Another year has just passed, and i am still Breathing..

It may not seem such a big deal to you, but it is to me. 

Last year, today..I said RIP to 2016, but this year, I dont wanna say Goodbye..Some growth..han!!!

This year, I welcome a New Year, 

This year, No Good Byes,

This year, is gonna be another challenge!

This year, however, I am ready!

This year, I am going to focus on things that matter

This year, I am going to try being a better person.

This year, I need to make a difference.

This year, wont be that long!!

This year, is already a day closer to the end.

Welcome.....2018!!!!

You DON'T Have to be Poor to become Famous!!

Ola!

We have heard of so many stories, of less fortunate people, struggling and fighting through life. and they become famous and stars. Their stories are shared everywhere as a motivational tool. Okay! I agree..they did have to work hard, and they did accomplish something worthwhile. Shahrukh Khan, Amitabh Bacchan, Steve Jobs and many more are in the same league.

Then comes another category of people, who were born fortunate and did not have to run behind their passions. They got a kickstart. Kareena Kapoor, Mukesh Ambani, Jamsetji Tata are in this league. They did get a kick start, but their success is their own, else they would have ended like Abhishek Bacchan.

Then their is yet another category of people, the middle class..the struggling yet fortunate. Born in a family of passions, but different kind. Deepika Padukone, Agatha Christie, Shakespeare are in this league..These people follow their passions, and succeed, in spite of the resistance from their family. Though they do have a safety cushion in place.

I feel, that these people are more prone to failures..They need more motivation!! How?? Any Suggestions?

XoXo

Nashee

Ghazal

rawan dawan hai ye kaarwan kaisa,
chala ja raha hai ye musafir kaisa..

jab manzil ki nahin hai khabar,
to phir raahon ka fasana kaisa..

khatm hona hai safar maut ke darwaaze par,
phir chain-o-sukun ko lutana kaisa..

bikhri hai khushbu phulon ki manind,
yahi hai tamanna to phir ghabrana kaisa..

kisi chalte hue bacche se poochiye,
gir k uthne mein hai maza kaisa..

chala gaya hai ahmad wo tujhe chodh kar..
to usey yaad kar, ye aansu bahana kaisa..

Be A Hunky Girl!!

So for past few days, I have been observing the world around me..Yes! The world where women are still suppressed..

The world where male domination still means "physical domination"..may be rape, domestic abuse, or other kinds of sexual abuses.

This male domination is not just about sexual assaults..its also that men over power women by using physical pressure. May it be your parent or husband or a stranger.

Men know..to hit right across the cheek to over power a woman.

Since now, they cant supress you with their intellect anymore..that era is long gone. So this is the "New Domination"

The only way to get through this era..is to get physically strong..Be a Hunk. Train yourself to bear physical pain( coz hey..emotionally we are way stronger)!!

"Simple Maths"

When we die..our soul leaves our body..and instead of being a person we become "a body" or "mayyat" or "mitti"..

If you do simple maths..it means..that we are not our body..we are what our soul is..

So, by that definition..Nashee is not fat or thin..she cant be beautiful or ugly..she is not tall or short..

She may be happy or sad..she may be tired..frustrated..satisfied..

But she cant be dark or fair..she juz cant be..

its simple Maths!!!

XoXo
Nashee

Baked Fish: Recipe

Items Required:

Fish ( boneless) : 1 kg
Ginger-garlic paste : 1 tbsp
Soya sauce : 2 tbsp
Paprika : 1 tbsp
Red chilli flakes : 1 tbsp
Salt : totaste
Olive oil : 2 tbsp

Method:

1) In a bowl, mix all ingredients and marinade fish pieces in it for 15 min.

2) bake the marinated fish in oven at 180 C for 10 min..or untill tender.

3) now, increase the heat, and bake for 10 min more..on both sides, for the crunchiness..

4) serve with tomato sauce!!

XoXo
Nashee