Ways to Heal a Broken Heart- Part 1

You know how they say, a wound starts to heal, when new skin starts to grow around it..

Well similarly, to heal a broken heart, you need new skin...adn that skin should be, Tall, Dark and Handsome!!

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The 100th Blog: The Lost Self Respect

It's not about betrayal..
It's not abour disloyalty..
It's not even about the fake declared Love..
It's about everything else..
It's about the sanctity of those three words.
It's about all the times you held my hands..
It's about all the times you kissed me..and didnt mean it..
It's about all those nights that you spent with me..which were not about love..But about satisfying your own ego..
Its about what broke on my chest..when I realised that I lost my trust to someone..who did all those things out of his own selfish interests and guilts..
It's about what I felt..deep down..in my heart..
It's about all the tears that I lost over you..
It's what I lost..
and that includes my Self Respect!!

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Happy Foodlintine's Day!!

So Valentine's upon us...Again..
What is it about this day, that make us so vulnerable..
What is it that we get upset..
Is it so important to celeberate love?
Why cant we just leave it as it is..
Why do we need to show it..
Or do we need to show..coz we dnt feel it..deep in our hearts..

Something is so unfufilling about this day..that every year..we sob about our lovelessness and lonliness..on this very same day..

May be its time to change that..and celeberate the independence that we have..the variety of options that we have..the cuisines we can taste and the desserts we can enjoy..

Happy Foodlintines Day!!

😍😍😍

Knock! One Ball at a Time!!

Have you ever felt, that your life is not easy..
Have you ever felt, that no matter how adapt and adjusted you get to the game..there is always a new ball thrown at you.
Have you ever felt, that you are just about to loose it..

Well let me tell you a secret..everyone feels that way..

The people who are laughing and smiling..are just the people who are fighting even harder..

Can you ever win a game, without playing??

Just keep fighting..with each ball comes a new learning...and with each learning..you are one step closer to knowing it all..and with each step..you are closer to that perfection, that you hope for.

everyone is fighting battles..and most of us are Loosing..So dont worry about that..Just keep knocking...one Ball at a time..

XoXo
Nashee

Khwahish: Ghazal

Josh zamane mein, hai khamoshi mere andar
Bheed ka alam, hai tanhai mere andar

Jab dekhti  hu un ajnabi aankhon mein shanasai
Barpa ho jata hai ek toofan mere andar

Darti hu zamane se, kahin loot na le
Insaan hu magar, hai maasoomiyat mere andar

Daudi chali jaati hu, manzil ki talaash mein
Dekha jo apna dil, to tha quraa’n mere andar

Kabhi yu ho ki mere lafz jaga jaayen chand zameero ko
AHMAD ye nadaan si, hai khwahish mere andar

Love/Relationship???

Relationships arent supposed to be Happy..
or Loving
or Fulfilling
or Romantic
or Passionate
or Caring
or Consuming
or Satisfying
or Perfect
or for You.

They are supposed to be for the Society..for the world to see..

Its the job of "Love" to be all those things..

Both dont necessarily go together!!

Nashee

The Real Life Tale

Its never perfect..It will never be perfect!!

And this is a good thing..Now we can all stop looking for that unexisting fairy tale..and start accepting the tale that we get..the Real Life Tale.

No prince charming is going to come on a white horse..It will be a regular man..in a car..who works a 9 to 5..thats how it works..

Its not going to be a perfect palace..If you are very lucky..it will be a 3 bedroom flat in a good area..

Thats how life is..Its never a Martini..its always a lemonade...and you have to make it Yourself!!

MI

Relationships are difficult as it is..You just add in a little Time, Distance and Family..

and wallah..

you got yourself a Mission Impossible!!

The Feminist's Truth

Every culture in the world has one thing in common..and i.e "girls getting all boo-boo ovee marriage"..its all a cultural thing..its just programmed in our brains that being married is a milestone that one has to achieve..successful or not..thats a concern that comes later...but you have to fulfill a bare minimum..its common in every single girl..

But then in every culture. There will be 1 in a 100 girls..who will be against this programming..and somehow her strings get tangled and she seems crazy to the rest of the lot..But mind you..SHE IS STILL THE SAME GOOEY ROMANTIC, PRINCE CHARMING ON THE WHITE HORSE kinda girl..

Every now and then, her strings will untangle and she will get on the "normal train".

#ToAllTheUnmarriedLadiesOutThere

PS- Prince Charming is right around the corner <3 <3

My Village

So there I was..in the most beautiful village possible..
where people knew me..
where there was no hypocrisy..
people met with open hearts..
they had little money..and no luxuries..
but there hearts were made if gold..
and they opened there hearts and wallet to us..

where things werent shiny and new..
but they were clean and dingy..
where we all had that srso ka saag and ganne..in other peoples homes..

where life is slow..too slow..but the heart beats are fast..

where life is dull..but happy!!

thats my village..
my Qayamganj!!

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Lies Please! Anyone?

Everybody loves a good Lie. Yeah you read it right.

LIES..thats what people love.

You can be honest..truthful..but nobody likes that. Because they cant handle the truth..men for instance!

They want co-dependent, weak, always smiling and perky women. They cant handle strong independent women..hence the single streak..

Strong women, say what they feel...the TRUTH..which obviously, is such a ball buster..So what should we do?

Be Perky??or be Truthful?
Be Honest? or just keep the truth to ourself?

What???

You made me a Non-Quitter!!

" You know what..I can't even believe I am saying this..But I am in f*****g Love with you. "

I have denied it till now, to myself, that this is all a mirage..and you are just an idea of love. But that's not true at all. You are my Love. From the moment, you came into my life, I haven't been able to sleep peacefully. It been such a up-down hill kind of journey. I have been so tired at times, that I just wanted to STOP.

Me...the person, with so much of life, wanted to stop. That's how tired I got. And then I wondered, why didn't I just quit..Its not like, it was impossible. I just didn't. And I blame YOU for that.

You did this to me. You made me a non-quitter. And i f*****g Love it. I love what you have made me into. I love knowing, that even though, we are practically not talking at all..I am still what you made me into.

So yeah..I Love You..and I am not gonna quit!!!

XoXo

Nashee

One Moment

Our perception changes..

Always remember that!!

One moment, you might hate a place or a person, and as soon as you are away from them, or say you loose them, you start missing them..

One moment, you may Love someone, and another, you might hate them, or something they did.

One moment, you may hate your job, you boss, another moment, you might fall in love with them.

Just One Moment, that's all it takes!!

XoXo

Nashee